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Introduction

As the conversation and thinking around relationships have evolved, there’s been a growing acceptance of Polyamorous relationships. As the name suggests, polyamorous relationships are consensual relationships that involve more than two committed partners. These non-monogamous relationships can take different forms, such as hierarchical, non-hierarchial, poly-fidelity, and mono-poly relationships, apart from many different forms.

If you’re in a polyamorous relationship and are looking for tools to enhance your communication as you explore sex in your poly relationship, here are certain tools that you can use to strengthen your communication.

5 Tools For Open Communication In Polyamorous Relationships

Sharing Expectations

Every relationship is unique, and so are the individuals present in the arrangement. If you and your polyamorous partners have certain expectations regarding sex and your relationship in general, it’s extremely important to communicate those needs so that all partners can be on the same page about how to handle your relationship.

For instance, if you want to experiment with flat chested sex dolls in the bedroom, and your partner wants to explore BDSM, focusing on experimenting can help you find your groove and explore sex in a healthy manner.

Boundary Setting

Boundary setting is by far one of the most important tools to establish open communication in your poly relationship. Irrespective of the kind of polyamorous relationship you’re in, defining and respecting your boundaries when it comes to romantic relationships can help make the connection stronger and communication more effective.

For instance, many polyamorous relationships are based on primary partners deciding what goes on in the relationship and will often be put in charge of making decisions, while the third partner can find it difficult to make their point known, especially if they’re involved in a hybrid or mono-poly relationship. That’s when it’s essential for all partners to set healthy boundaries and respect each other’s choices.

Prioritizing Quality Time

Long-term or short-term poly relationships require a strong emotional connection as these can be emotionally intensive relationships. If you and your partners are deeply in touch with each other’s bodies and souls, you can enjoy a healthy sex life and explore sex through communication. So, take some time out of your schedule to celebrate your connection. If a dinner date once a week works for you and one of your partners, do that. You can also go on adventures together and make memories with another partner. At the end of the day it’s all about how each one of you wishes to connect with one another.

This is especially important for people in long-term poly-relationships who often lose the spark in their relationship when the responsibilities of every day start taking up more space in their relationship than their partner or primary partner. Being intentional about spending time with your partners can make all the difference that you need to explore sex in your polyamorous relationship.

Managing Conflicts

Healthy relationship dynamics in a polyamorous relationship require an ability to manage conflicts between the partners. As the relationship dynamics are ever-evolving, it’s easier to find yourself quarreling with your partners from time to time, owing to the intensity of the connection. That’s when it’s essential to find ways to cope with and manage distressing situations by addressing them in a healthy manner since none of your expectations around sex should be considered pervert desires by your partners.

The key here is to approach any disagreement with love and consideration instead of letting it fester and become toxic or even scream and shout to make your case. Polyamorous relationships are based on trust, and these types of relationships can’t survive bursts of anger, as one partner might feel threatened for their emotional safety. Instead, you can learn to share your feelings with your partners in a healthy way to make your relationship strong.

Final Thoughts

Handling polyamorous relationships with care and consideration is one of the most important aspects of making them successful. If you and your partner(s) are able to communicate your expectations, be understanding and respectful, and manage conflicts in a healthy way, it can become quite easy for you all to explore sex in your polyamorous relationship with newfound curiosity and fun.